(Thanks iquizzle)

Diffed and merged, preserving my updates

Integrated fixes from henrikbrixandersen pull request #504

- fixed long menu entries (>14 or >18 chars) caused overrun in dogm lcd
implementation
- fixed pin set problem when in interrupt
- much faster ST7920 SW-SPI implementation
- increased ST7920 framebuffer size for more speed

merged from code downloaded from reprapworld.com

Reviert previous change of #if BLAH_PIN > 0 to #if defined(BLAH_PIN) &&
BLAH_PIN > -1. Unfortunately some times pin 0 is used. For my sins I've
gone through and replaced all unsafe checks of #if BLAH_PIN > -1 with
the safe version.

This adds a deadzone at 100% Feedrate when changing it at the status
screen/main menu. Prevents from unwanted feedrate-changing when
navigating back to the main menu and makes it easier to return to 100%.

The I2C LCD status indicators now indicate when the hotends or bed are
turned on at all (rather than just when they are in their heating phase)